how much a sub can bear

how much a sub can bear

Mi, 23.Aug 2023, 11:08 von EdemD

hello, i planning to visit germany for sessions soon, i just have an inquiry before taking any step forward...as i am still a beginner and i would appreciate every advice from the experienced subs.
estimately , how many sessions can a guy stand in a short time(up to two weeks), plus the recovery time.
my kinks are mainly foot fetish, corporal punishment, light CBT , slapping and spitting.
i know it's a deutsch language forum, and i'm

that i don't know german.
P.S. i'm an enthusiast and i realy hope i will get an answer this time since i haven't got an answer to my previous inquires

Re: how much a sub can bear

Mi, 23.Aug 2023, 12:16 von Gog

Hello EdemD,

Not sure if a general answer can be given. What do you mean with „being a beginner“? Did you have sessions before? All bodies are different and it will depend on body and the type of session, how many sessions you „could have“ in two weeks. Foot fetish, spitting, slapping will need a little less recovery time than corporal punishment.

What exactly would you be looking for? Long sessions, short sessions, intense with one Mistress, see different Mistresses (to learn/experience about the different styles)?

If you had sessions before, you know a bit about your personal recovery time. You could do sessions keeping that in mind, keep the „harder“ stuff for the end of the trip.

If you never had sessions before, I would start „a little softer“ maybe.

Anyway, a good Mistress will be able to create a session and also will „read you“ and can adjust based on your reactions.

Re: how much a sub can bear

Mi, 23.Aug 2023, 16:06 von rubberbastian

Funny, that's on my bucket list, a road trip through Germany, travelling from town to town, having sessions with my unfulfilled favorites before retiring from Pay SM. The current show stopper for me is, that I don't believe to stand a session every day, but anyway.

Think that's an individual case depending mainly on your mental and physical toughness, ability to recover and the degree of being (ab)used in a session, and at least a question of your financial scope.

I've had 2 or 3 times sessions on (2) consecutive days, since the prior session made or left me pretty horny, and it was absolutely fine for me.

Speaking for my person, in terms of advanced nipple play, cbt or corporal punishment I would give me a recovery time of at least 2-3 days between each session.

Another approach could be to direct the focus of the sessions differently, e.g. one session on humilation (spitting & face slapping) and the next on punishment and so on.

Re: how much a sub can bear

Di, 29.Aug 2023, 13:56 von EdemD

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Mi, 23.Aug 2023, 12:16
Hello EdemD,

Not sure if a general answer can be given. What do you mean with „being a beginner“? Did you have sessions before? All bodies are different and it will depend on body and the type of session, how many sessions you „could have“ in two weeks. Foot fetish, spitting, slapping will need a little less recovery time than corporal punishment.

What exactly would you be looking for? Long sessions, short sessions, intense with one Mistress, see different Mistresses (to learn/experience about the different styles)?

If you had sessions before, you know a bit about your personal recovery time. You could do sessions keeping that in mind, keep the „harder“ stuff for the end of the trip.

If you never had sessions before, I would start „a little softer“ maybe.

Anyway, a good Mistress will be able to create a session and also will „read you“ and can adjust based on your reactions.

i mean i just had an erotic foot fetish sessions only, i'm looking forward to have a SM session soon, i'm planning to have between 1 to 2 hours each session.
i really liked the idea of keeping the harder stuff for the end; i'm thinking of doing it.
i appreciate your answer, thank you ))

Re: how much a sub can bear

Di, 29.Aug 2023, 14:01 von EdemD

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Mi, 23.Aug 2023, 16:06
Funny, that's on my bucket list, a road trip through Germany, travelling from town to town, having sessions with my unfulfilled favorites before retiring from Pay SM. The current show stopper for me is, that I don't believe to stand a session every day, but anyway.

Think that's an individual case depending mainly on your mental and physical toughness, ability to recover and the degree of being (ab)used in a session, and at least a question of your financial scope.

I've had 2 or 3 times sessions on (2) consecutive days, since the prior session made or left me pretty horny, and it was absolutely fine for me.

Speaking for my person, in terms of advanced nipple play, cbt or corporal punishment I would give me a recovery time of at least 2-3 days between each session.

Another approach could be to direct the focus of the sessions differently, e.g. one session on humilation (spitting & face slapping) and the next on punishment and so on.

it sounds as an ideal trip indeed, i like your enthusiasm (i will share my experience if i got the chance to do it soon).
that's seems as a good idea to distribute my kinks in different sessions.
thank you))

Re: how much a sub can bear

Sa, 02.Sep 2023, 16:01 von Toy1978

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Mi, 23.Aug 2023, 11:08
hello, i planning to visit germany for sessions soon, i just have an inquiry before taking any step forward...as i am still a beginner and i would appreciate every advice from the experienced subs.
estimately , how many sessions can a guy stand in a short time(up to two weeks), plus the recovery time.
my kinks are mainly foot fetish, corporal punishment, light CBT , slapping and spitting.
i know it's a deutsch language forum, and i'm that i don't know german.
P.S. i'm an enthusiast and i realy hope i will get an answer this time since i haven't got an answer to my previous inquires

I also think it is very individual.
Are you planing to visit one dominatrix multiple times or visiting multiple dominatrixes?
In the first case, maybe play with a chastity belt inbetween the sessions and "only" have an orgasm the first and last session.

Other than that, might want to follow my routine. I also am a "kink tourist" at times and visit multiple ladies within a short time window.
For me, the best sessions are when I have not had an orgasm for one week or ten days.
So I tend to have one extended session at the beginning of a trip, followed by 1 or 2 small / less important sessions before 3-5 days of chaste. After that, repeat.

With regards to your kinks, i do not see any problem with having 5-6 sessions within two weeks - as there is nothing very taxing on your body.

Re: how much a sub can bear

Sa, 02.Sep 2023, 17:29 von rubberbastian

@EdemD
You are cordially welcome, may I ask which town/s (or areas) you'll gonna visit.

Toy1978
Contradict you reluctantly, but I prefer to relieve in the evening before or the morning of the session, even if I have a so called ban, otherwise I would be an easy prey.

Re: how much a sub can bear

So, 03.Sep 2023, 12:31 von EdemD

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Sa, 02.Sep 2023, 17:29
@EdemD
You are cordially welcome, may I ask which town/s (or areas) you'll gonna visit.

Toy1978
Contradict you reluctantly, but I prefer to relieve in the evening before or the morning of the session, even if I have a so called ban, otherwise I would be an easy prey.

i'm thinking of visiting munich first of all and NRW

Re: how much a sub can bear

So, 03.Sep 2023, 12:38 von EdemD

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Sa, 02.Sep 2023, 16:01

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Mi, 23.Aug 2023, 11:08
hello, i planning to visit germany for sessions soon, i just have an inquiry before taking any step forward...as i am still a beginner and i would appreciate every advice from the experienced subs.
estimately , how many sessions can a guy stand in a short time(up to two weeks), plus the recovery time.
my kinks are mainly foot fetish, corporal punishment, light CBT , slapping and spitting.
i know it's a deutsch language forum, and i'm that i don't know german.
P.S. i'm an enthusiast and i realy hope i will get an answer this time since i haven't got an answer to my previous inquires
I also think it is very individual.
Are you planing to visit one dominatrix multiple times or visiting multiple dominatrixes?
In the first case, maybe play with a chastity belt inbetween the sessions and "only" have an orgasm the first and last session.

Other than that, might want to follow my routine. I also am a "kink tourist" at times and visit multiple ladies within a short time window.
For me, the best sessions are when I have not had an orgasm for one week or ten days.
So I tend to have one extended session at the beginning of a trip, followed by 1 or 2 small / less important sessions before 3-5 days of chaste. After that, repeat.

With regards to your kinks, i do not see any problem with having 5-6 sessions within two weeks - as there is nothing very taxing on your body.

thanks for that useful information, i will keep it in my mind and i will take by your advice.
i'm thinking of visit multiple dominatrixes

how much a sub can bear